Hold on, we're getting closer now

The price we pay, is it worth it?
Those were two separate blogs I just read and they really inspired me. ♥
I just thought putting them together in one sentence would be cool.
Yeah, fuck you Colin Gower. I fell asleep last night on you, or I should say passed out cold, and we didn't do any picture exchange - So he texts me tonight, 8:54 pm, "Want to do the pic thing now" . Um yeah no! Seriously fuck guys. I'm gonna become a lesbian. Not really, but guys nowadays can really push us girls to that point! (Nothing at all against gays, much love and support!). Well today I woke up to an early morning BINGE! Fuck that. Then after my sister's graduation we have to go to Olive Garden. Oh well, binged off that place. And of course it's all floating away in the sewage systems somewhere. That's sad how much money I waste on food, how much food I waste on this body of nothing, how all the poor children in Africa could be eating but instead I'm letting them starve. :(
I don't want to think that far anymore. I'm sorry.
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Hopefully Madison can come pick me up later. Hell yeah I'm sneaking out!
I'm trying to be straightedge. Hahaha no seriously. I want to be, but then as soon as someone offers I'm not going to say no! I'm too easily influenced, vulnerable, inpatient. I don't want to be any of those words anymore.
I saw my mom again today. Every time I see her I get in this complete angry / agitated feeling. I'm so irritable! That's the word. Every single thing she says I get tense at and mad. I don't know why.
Well the parentals are back. I think I won't pretend to go to sleep or anything and totally not wait for Madison. Ha
I'm going to write tomorrow. Thank you guys for commenting, it makes me happy to know someone out there is reading my thoughts and actually caring enough. ♥ Thank youus :)

Faith

I've been wanting to blog so much lately, but I couldn't because my dad wouldn't let me on the computer. I'm grounded, ha. Last Friday I went out with Madison ♥ my girl, and we got shit faced, completelyyyyyyyyyyyyy plastered. I don't remember a thing! But as long as I didn't hook up with anyone it's all good. :)
No but I guess when I came inside, I threw up everywhere..yeah long story haha but that's pretty much what's been going on.
Fuck, never drink and take muscle relaxers. Especially on a day of your finals. Whatever, passed out at noon, woke up by seven ha. :) We started drinking at seven in the morning! Me and Madison. She's all I got right now since Tori is gone. I'm kinda glad we have some space, but it's like I'm so alone. Ed hasn't been at all nice to me lately. I just drank two cups of tea so hopefully that will drown her out for a while.
I met with my mom yesterday, supervised visit. Pretty lame, she made me cry and shit. Yet I want to go back there? I don't know why. She hurts me so much but I love her so much, that's not right!
Don't you hate after purging how you're so thirsty sometimes? These are one of those times.
My mom said that there's something inside me eating me up. I laughed.
If only she knew how bad Ed is, how I completely bullshitted my way around everyone. But I miss CCED (Ed rehab) and I want to go back. Maybe it's just because of all the loving people there. Clair & Britt ♥ . All of the other girls with Ed. I can relate so much, I like feel at home. They see me cry & watch me grow. It's peaceful there, for the most part.
I need to find my inner peace. And until I do so, I'll probably fast. I have sand in my ear hahah, Madison & I were rolling in the volleyball sand court this morning, I think :)
Well. I'm super tired. Sorry Colin but I will not be sending you pictures tonight, even though you are and probably always be my first love who is a complete douche. Last April - what he said to me will always be with me
"I'll shove my fingers down my throat then"


Fine, I don't care

And you still seem to never care. All you want is to hook up with me & then push me back down. You're not tying me down this time boy, I'm free.
Adam wrote me a letter; court on june 1 apparently didn't go well. I don't know how long he's in for, but I'll find out in the next letter. I love that boy, but I don't think I can have a relationship with him. He's in jail, that's not a very good future. Sure I'll help him and I will, I'm not going to just leave. But until he can be sober and stable, then I'll be with him. It breaks my heart to say that but I mean, I'm growing up & I can't wait forever.
I need more tea. & SLEEEEEEEEEEEEP.
Hope everyone is well. ♥

Float on ♥

I'm feeling calm, peaceful. I like this feeling. One binge today, one purge. Then a few cups of green tea and here I am now. Restricting is kinda easy when you're in a bikini all day; I was laying out trying to tan. Anyways, I want to say thanks to everyone here. Honestly, you guys make my day, knowing that I have people out there reading this and commenting. It means a lot to me. Thank you. :)
I lost my best friend. Not lost as in deceased, but I told some people her biggest secret. I know, I stabbed her in the back. Why did I do it? I don't know. We've been best friends for nine years now. We tell each other everything, and I went and told someone stuff. (I told one of our other friends, the secret was she lost her virginity to her boyfriend.) It's not a big deal to me, if you've read my July posts from last year...yeah. And I just hooked up with some Ryan guy who lives by my dad. I wish I didn't, but I guess you live and learn. Sorry I'm getting side tracked! Ha. No but, this was a big big big deal to her, Tori. I love her with all of my heart and she's been there for me through absolutely everything. And I do this to her? I can't explain how sorry I am, and how much I am upset with myself about it. It was like, a one time thing, you start ranting to a friend about something and it all pours out. :(
Well she hasn't talked to me in a week now, over a week actually. I'm a lost puppy without her. Honestly, she's my other half and I fucked it up. Way to go me.
So I've been out looking for new people, and actually I've found some people who actually have a lot in common with me. So maybe this break is a good thing? Time will tell.
I'm a hypocrite. I'm a liar. I did my best friend wrong. I'm told so many times that I hurt the people I love the most in my life. It's true, but I don't want to be told that anymore, I don't want to live that way. It's horrible, it's really really horrible.
I'm sorry, I needed to vent and I've got no one...so yeah. :(
This eating disorder really fucks up a lot of my relationships, but I can't blame everything on my ed.
I went outside tonight, it's like almost 80 degrees, just rained but now it's drying up. I laying in my dad's drive way and just stared up at the stars and clouds. Everything just looked so different. I've never seen the world how I did tonight, and it really is changing me. It was so peaceful laying there, breathing, smelling the sweet air. Air really does smell sweet, haha. But it was just awesome; inspired me to blog tonight and I'm going to go write later. Then blog again tomorrow morning. :)
I am 119! Says the bad scale in the garage, but I believe it. Everywhere I go, everyone I see comments on how skinny I am. Why can't I see it? :( It's not fair, but nothing in life is fair. I deserve this because of all the shit I've done in my life. Especially to Tori. I messaged her on facebook today and she replied, it was nice. But she can't find herself to talk to me, so it's going to take a lot more time. School's out in five days and then I'll be stuck out here in Mentor for the summer. Atleast until July 1 if my mom can win me back. ♥ Please dear lord, let me go back to her. I know all of the things she's done to me, but I forgive her and I love her and I miss her. . .

Enough with my personal issues. What I've learned from all this though, is never take anything for granted, and you really don't know how much you have until it's gone. It's the truth. I lost my mom, my best friend now too? The judge I went to see last Monday, got hit by a car that night by riding his bike on a road. Died. And I just saw him hours earlier. Wow. :(
Life can take someone right out of your life in a second, so appreciate everyone and everything you have, because you really don't know if there will be a tomorrow to do so. I'm learning to take more risks, but also think before I do things. I'm impulsive and I'm trying to stop myself from being that as well as impatient.
Oh goodness that's a lot for tonight!! Hahah sorry, but thank you everyone. ♥
Goooodnight world.

Screeeeeeew Doctors.

In a relationship with Adam. ♥
He means a lot to me. He's back in jail though; overdosed :(
Probably gone for a while. I wrote him this three page letter; debating on whether or not I should send it. It's deep, and just talks about my feelings for him and just how important he is to me and how I wish he could stay sober. I let three friends read it and they all said it was so good. They said I'm a good writer and should write a book, lol.
Hmm what else. Tomorrow night I'm getting drunk as fuck with my niggga bitchh :) Hahah Madison, we got expelled from school together and now are such good friends. Did 2400 mg of shit with her today - feelin' good!
I hate doctors. They think they know everything, but they really don't. Oh well, what can I do?
Nothing! Haha yeah.
I'm not in a blogging mood, so I'll cut this one short as well.
Stay strong lovelies. ♥

Just say no.

Hi hi hi. So I totally failed Friday; binged and purged four times straight in a row. Like, chain-binged? Ugh. Yesterday, oh dear lord, don't even wanna go there. But as long as nothing is in me that's all that matters, right?
I just gotta say no to food. Sounds easy, right? I think I can actually do it today though. I just feel positive about it today. :)
Hopefully I can stay strong.
I'll write later, I'm not feelin' it right now.
Byee for now. ♥

I need a nap.

What a tiring day, like seriously.
School wore me out today and I didn't even really do anything?
Whatever, at least I restricted pretty damn well; only two bananas! Haha if that really even counts as restricting, I don't know. But that's all I'm going to have today, maybe a nice cup of tea soon to hold me over? If I fail restricting then I'll have a binge and purge. Oh well, it is what it is.
I'm kinda pissed at blogger for being down yesterday, does anyone agree with me?! Hah, I like actually wanted to write and shit and it says that they are down - wtf! Today I'll write everything though.
My stomach is screaming for food. :( I might give in...
Anyways, Adam gets out on Monday. I know, I said that with no enthusiasm whatsoever. One month ago, to this very day (April 13) I was head over heals for the guy. We've been writing letters back and forth and it just made my heart smile. Now, I don't want a relationship with him. I don't, and I think I really shouldn't get involved too much with him. I'm already in deep because he thinks he'll use me and have me when he gets out. I don't know though, I mean my eyes have really opened up and I see so so so so many more options out there. There's this one cute & smart boy in training and conditioning with me; I feel a little crush coming on. I'd like to pursue him a bit more and get to know him and what not before I throw myself at him. Not literally but as in like, drop everyone I'm talking to and go for him. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Well who knows. I actually like beign singe too, it makes me feel free. I just want someone there for me; someone I can hang out with all the time to distract me from this ED and someone who'll compliment me and just make me feel good without having to kiss him or do sexual shit with him. I don't want that right now, I'm really not ready. No guy seems to respect that, but I'm not letting my gard down. When I say that, I mean it. I'm not letting what happened in July happen all over again.
Tears are coming. Ugh.

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Enough with all that.
I'm gonna' go. Sleep sounds nice right now. Hope everyone is doing well, stay strong. ♥

Blah Blah Blahh.

I had a good day, can't complain. I sound crazy in my last blog, I'm sorry. I just started on this new medicine - Nerontin (?) - and it decreases anxiety greatly and causes me to be more outgoing. Which I didn't realize until this morning why I felt so good, haha.

Adam gets out on Monday? Mmmm :)
I'm so excited! I miss him terribly; I haven't seen him since the day I skipped school and visited him in the hospital, back in March! It's been too long.
I miss my mom. I miss my home. I miss the town I used to live in.
Have I wrote about what happened on here?
Basically in a few short sentences; mom's an alcoholic & lost custody of me & I can only see her in a room with people and cameras watching & I love her & I miss her & she kicked me out March 17th & I live with my dad now & July 1 is when the parentals go back to court and she could get custody of me again & I don't like my dad & I miss my mom.
Yup yup. It was hard though, like she would be a completely different person when she drank. She'd hit me, pull my hair, push me into walls. I've had so may bruises and shit all over me from her. I think I said something about that in my older posts. I hated her, I really did. I hated living with her and everything. But I think I acted too strongly on this, by telling someone about her problem. I regret telling JFS about her but I mean I couldn't take it anymore. She was breaking me and killing herself. I just wish it didn't go this far..
Everything happens for a reason; that's all I believe in anymore.
Mmm..

I wish I had someone there, you know? I search for that mother figure all the time, someone who won't constantly put me down or abuse me not only physically but emotionally as well. It took me many years before I accepted the fact that she was abusive. All my friends kept telling me repeatedly...I denied it and defended her. She's my mom, I mean, anyone would..but then I couldn't take it anymore and she made me feel lower than low in life. I'm done.

But I forgive her. It's not her fault. I just miss her. :(

I miss Adam and Josie (my kitten) - at my mom's - and the house I grew up in and the grass and the country and the birds singing and the smell of the morning coffee in that house. Never take things for granted, I have and you'll never realize how much you have until it's gone. And she's gone..
She says that it isn't a mother's job to pick me up / drop me off places I needed to go. I though it was, but I was wrong. I treated my mom like shit, now that I look back on it all. I wish I could of been better, but I can't say that because it's done and over with and in the past.

Restricted today but binged and purged once. Feelin' like doing it again but I won't. It's times like these where I could really use a person to support me.

I think this is enough blogging for a day. If any of you guys have a facebook, I would be more than glad to be friends on that, message back and forth? :)

I have to pee, just thought I'd share that haha. Goodnight everyone and stay strong. ♥